dansomeone
Well-Known Member
Although I haven't sold anything on Discogs, I have sold things for over twenty years on half, ebay and amazon. The VAST majority of my sales have gone smoothly. It's easy to focus on a negative experience, and even to suspect bad will on the part of the buyer, but that's seldom the case. You have to view this in the long term, accept the occasional negative experience as a part of the cost of doing business, and protect your seller rating. And, like @Ethos99 suggested, control what you can control and adjust your practices to try to avoid this situation in the future.Right, that's why buyers should request that the seller open and ship it separate in a poly-sleeve. Thanks for the advice and I suppose that's what I should do since $25 is not a big hit.
But what I didn't write in my initial post is that I suspect this buyer planned this outcome all along. She messaged me so many times about the condition before buying it that I blocked her. But then she ordered the LP anyway, and regrettably, I didn't cancel it because I assumed something was lost in translation from Polish to English. In a broader sense, what's to prevent a foreign buyer from doing this again and again?
Last, I'm disappointed in discogs CS. I love discogs in every way. But it took four days for them to get back to me and the message is clearly a cut/paste form email rather than an actual response to my query. I understand why they don't want to intervene, but I really expected more help/support, especially given how every month I pay them commissions on my sales.
As for Discogs' response, they are only an intermediary and serve both the buyer and the seller in the transaction. Although you pay them a commission, there wouldn't be any commission without a purchase by a buyer. In light of the photo of the damage, which, absent evidence to the contrary, has to be assumed to have occurred in transit, it's unclear what additional help/support Discogs could have provided. And technically, this is a grading issue, as the item arrived with a sleeve condition worse than you described.
I do agree with those who have said a full refund without a return is unreasonable. But, I also think the cost to return the item should be the seller's responsibility when an item arrives damaged. In light of that, I wonder whether simply issuing a refund and moving past this is the better choice. If it's returned, you will still be out both the initial and return shipping costs, but could relist the item. Is that worth it?