I agree with almost everything you say so I dont take it as you bashing people who want to stay with it. Usually when we disagree it's on the little things and I take it more as a discussion.
Mofi/AP are consistency ahead but Ill be completely honest, I'm not even close to an audiophile. I can tell the difference between a good and bad pressing, of course, but unless you played most of these Audiophile pressings right next to each other, the difference wouldnt be enough to effect my enjoyment. It's one of the reasons why I hate 45rpm remastering, even if it does result in a slight uptick in sound.
Overall, I like VMPs curation and think their pressings are usually at minimum above average, if not always the "best it's ever sounded".
It has introduced me to a lot of music I wouldnt be exposed to normally and I'm lucky that I have a pretty diverse taste where It's hard to have a full out miss for me. I've been subscribed to all 3 tracks since Biggie and have swapped a grand total of 5 times, and have ended up later buying 3 of those I swapped out of (Plus recently sold Beach House, so I guess that counts as a miss).
I understand, I am a rarity here and in their prime target market and can't blame anyone for not fitting that criteria.
And their CS response time and fulfillment is undoubtedly absolute garbage. If anything makes me eventually quit, it will be that.